About the expertNatalia Muzyka, psychologist and sexologist
Psychologist and sexologist, body-oriented therapist and art therapist. I work online with women and couples in Russian and Ukrainian: desire, the body, orgasm, intimacy and talking about sex.
- PhD Candidate in Clinical Sexology, IICS, USA
- Member of ISSM and AASECT
- «Sexology»
- «100 Questions and Answers About Orgasm»
Who I am
Natalia Muzyka
Psychologist and sexologist, body-oriented therapist, art therapist, author of educational programs and books.
I work in sexology because far too many women live with sex they have to put up with. Waiting for him to finish. Pretending. Putting themselves off until later and assuming it’s like this for everyone. It matters to me that this can be talked about calmly, without shame and without clinical coldness.
In consultations I rarely see something “broken”. Far more often I see exhaustion, accumulated resentment, shame about the body that stretches back to childhood, and a couple where both have long been waiting for the other to make the first move. Desire doesn’t switch on by command. It comes back when a woman feels her body again, has the energy, and feels safe with her partner.
I believe in words. Oral communication, as I call it, meaning the ability to tell your partner what you like and what you don’t want, works wonders. And I believe in the body: much of what can’t be explained can be felt through movement, breathing and body-based practices.
Besides consultations, I write books, run courses (in Russian and Ukrainian) and host the YouTube channel “Министерство отношений” (Ministry of Relationships). I call my readers “my magical ones”; almost every post of mine starts with those words.
Method
How I work
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Body
I look at how you feel your body: where there is tension, where there is shame, what feels good. We work with the body directly, through practices, not only through talking.
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State
Exhaustion, stress, sleep, the postpartum period, menopause, medication. If the cause may be medical, I’ll tell you which doctor to see and what to ask.
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Relationship
What is going on in the couple: resentment, mismatched desire, the inability to agree. You can come alone or together.
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Practice in real life
After the session you leave with concrete homework for the coming weeks: one phrase, one practice, one agreement.
- Consultations with a psychologist and sexologist
- Body-oriented therapy
- Art therapy
- Body-based practices and pelvic floor training
- Work with couples
- Homework between sessions
Education and books
Where the knowledge comes from
PhD Candidate in Clinical Sexology, IICS, USA
ISSM, International Society for Sexual Medicine
AASECT, American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists
Book
«Sexology»
A book on the foundations of sexuality: how desire, the body and intimacy work.
Book
«100 Questions and Answers About Orgasm»
Answers to the questions women most often ask about orgasm.
Questions and answers
Questions and answers
Short answers to the questions people ask most often.
Who is Natalia Muzyka?
A psychologist and sexologist, body-oriented therapist and art therapist, author of the books “Sexology” and “100 Questions and Answers About Orgasm”. PhD Candidate in Clinical Sexology (IICS, USA), member of ISSM and AASECT.
What does Natalia Muzyka do?
She consults women and couples on desire, orgasm, pain and tension during sex, shame about the body, intimacy after childbirth and in menopause. She writes books, runs courses and hosts the “Министерство отношений” channel.
Is Natalia Muzyka a doctor?
No. I’m a psychologist and sexologist and I don’t prescribe medication or treatment plans. If the cause may be medical, I say directly which doctor to see and what to ask.
Can I get a consultation online?
Yes, consultations take place online, by video call. You can be at home, in any country.
In which languages are consultations held?
In Russian and Ukrainian. You choose the language when you book.
How do I book a consultation?
Leave a request on the “Online sexologist” page. We agree on the time, language and platform; the price is known in advance and doesn’t change.
Next step
Work through your situation
If you want to work through your own situation rather than a generic scheme, book a free consultation: I or my team will take it.
Work through your situation, not a generic scheme
A free online consultation for women and couples, led by me or my team. No generic advice and no judgment.